It’s not necessary for you to become someone that you are not for someone. Don’t ever feel like you have to be someone other than yourself. If they don’t accept you for you then they aren’t worth being close to. Don’t expect someone else to change for you either. You can’t force it either way. Why we think it needs to happen is beyond me. Accept who you are. Accept who others are. You don’t have to change yourself or try to be someone else. Be you and be the best you that you can be.